putting myself out there

i come to the time in age where it's time to find a girlfriend. i never had one in my life, i had girls that were friends, but never a girlfriend. it's difficult for me to find a girlfriend who accepts me who i am. being a nerd turns away alot of girls. i trying to find a girl who is similar to me, but i haven't found her yet. that be said, i wonder if there's something looking for me or did i already found her and i missed my chance?